YOU’RE NOT ALONE

I promise you that every family has had difficult drop-offs. Here are some of the things I’ve learned as a teacher and parent that will help you have more successful drop offs more often.

When problem-solving this process, and through routine and consistency we have to focus on teaching our little learners:

“You can trust what your grown-ups say and what will happen next.”

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ROUTINE

This can look different for every family.

An example of a basic 1,2,3 routine:

As you bring your child to the school, spend time talking to them about the 1,2,3 routine. Talk about how for example you will help them 1. Remove their shoes and coat, 2. Give them big hug and kiss, 3. Say goodbye and go. Quicker is usually better. This exact 1,2,3 routine may be all you need for a child that has been going to school for a while. However, a child that’s just started school may need a little extra help and transition time.

There are many elements that you can incorporate.. Choose what works for you and your child, and make it fun. Remember! NEVER APOLOGIZE OR PUT ON A SAD FACE WHEN YOU ARE DROPPING OFF. Make sure that your verbal and non-verbal cues communicate that school is a loving and fun place full of new friends are experiences.

10 ideas for routine elements:

  1. Read a book together.

  2. Play with them for a bit. (many children do well with specifics; “I can do one puzzle with you.” Some children we can be a little looser about it “I can play for a little while.”)

  3. Stay with them until or through circle time.

  4. Walk them in to the teacher to say good morning together.

  5. Help them choose the first thing that they’re going to play with that day.

  6. Have a specific number of hugs and/or kisses. (I’ve seen this really work for those “one more hug!” children that can keep their parents at school for an eternity.)

  7. Wave at the window. Remember, our space has those amazing little peep holes that allow the perfect reason for you to leave and your child to stay!

  8. Let them snuggle their stuffed animal or nap blanket at goodbye.

  9. Have a silly little saying or special handshake that you make up together and use every day.

  10. Print a photo of the family together for them to hold and look at. (This is also helpful when they get sad throughout the day.)

when a Child new to MICASITA Know that when our teachers have a chance, they will ALways let you know how your child is doing through Kinderlime!!